here are hot spots where one can discover one’s future partner.
1.) Church
The church is one of the places where people believe that they can find the best life partners. The major reason is the fact that the level of spirituality of the people in the church is believed to be higher than that of those who are not regulars in the church. From a random research carried on the subject topic, it was gathered that many people are more comfortable with meeting their spouses in the church. While a few others were of the opinion that worse people reside in the church just to get security of some sort. In fact, they noted that it is even more dangerous to meet and hook up with someone in the church as one may not really know the individual’s true colours until something happens that will expose it.
2.) Bar
It is almost a norm these days to see people hook up in bars, or pepper-soup joints, beer parlour or otherwise. From our observation, young guys do not go there alone. They are mostly found in company of a young lady as a companion. Findings have also revealed that many guys go to the bars to see if there could be ‘single’ ladies waiting to be ‘taken to mama’ and vice versa. Fortunately, a few couples have confessed to have met their spouses in bars and have gone ahead to enjoy blissful marriages.
3.) School
This is another really sure place where spouses meet. The fact that the people see each other everyday makes it easier for them to access the prospective spouse’s character from close range.
4.) Social Gatherings
One of the many reasons social events are being put together is to ensure that people from different backgrounds, needs, and desires, come together to seek a way of finding comfort with one another. In other words, when people have occasions such as Child Christening, Wedding, and even Funeral ceremonies, there are great chances that people with a desire to meet with a future partner will just be hanging somewhere around the corner to give a lift to a person of like mind. This also explains why people invite their friends and acquaintances to such occasions.
5.) Service Year
It is nearly a taboo for a lady who goes into her mandatory one year Youth Service without a future partner to return the same way. In fact, guys have reportedly claimed that many ladies push themselves on men during the one year programme. This has been blamed on some myths being peddled around, that if a woman does not succeed in getting a responsible man during her stay in the tertiary institution and rounds up her service year the same way, she may have lost her opportunity of meeting her prince Charming. While this is not always true, the ladies have always ensured that they do not find themselves in such dilemma. Some go to the extent of deliberately tying the guy they only just met down with pregnancy and insist that they get married.
6.) Beach
Some of our respondents to the question on where they met their spouses noted that the beach is also a feasible place where people could meet their future partners. Their argument was based on the fact that people go there for different events and are likely to meet and share a few words with others who also came to catch fun. Like bees, they get attracted to each other and soon start visiting the beach in each other’s company and eventually get married. It is not unusual or even out of place for people who meet at the beach to fall in love and get married almost immediately so far it is by mutual consent.
7.) The gym
The gym isn’t a place to display your glamorous side, If there’s a fitness centre regular you’d like to get to know, approach him/her when you’re ready.
8.) Your neighbourhood
people in your general living area aren’t as risky as speculated, they are better because you know more about them. So don’t be shy aboutgoing up to people in your neighbourhood or building when they’re out and about.
9.) Work
Though office romances can end badly, they can also give birth to lifelong companionship. The workforce is among the top places to find one’s spouse, and it’s not that surprising to hear. If you’re in the same field, chances are you have similar interests or at least understand each other’s work flow.
Credit: Naij&Hellogiggles
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