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Wednesday 29 June 2016

10 people to exclude from your wedding guest list.

Are you working with a limited budget? Or you want a simple wedding with few guest?
this list will help you plan better on who to exclude from your guest list.

1.) ESTRANGED FRIENDS OR FAMILY

This one is tough. If you feel like you couldn’t possibly get married without this person in attendance, it might be time to to reach out and bury the hatchet. But if the thought gives you more anxiety than relief, avoid the negativity and hold the invite.

2.) THE FRIEND OF A FRIEND OF A FRIEND

You grab drinks in a group every once in a while, but if this girl isn't someone you could grab coffee with without the whole crew, don't feel pressured to send an invite.

3.) YOUR EXES

This one goes without saying. Unless you and your ex are miraculously close in a strictly platonic way (and your soon-to-be-spouse is on board) you can safely sort your exes into the "not in a million years" pile.

4.) THE FAIR-WEATHER "FRIEND"

If she only chats you up when she needs something and lives to stir up old drama, your wedding day is no time to send this person an invite. Save room for friends and family members who truly care about your well-being.

5.) YOUR CO-WORKERS

Work besties or not, a good rule of thumb is unless you both make an effort to see each other outside of work, don't feel the need to extend an invite.

6.) YOUR COUSIN'S ON-AGAIN-OFF-AGAIN BOYFRIEND

They've broken up once a month for the past year, so who's to say what state they'll be in on your wedding day? Avoid the drama altogether and hold the invite.

7.) YOUR NOSY (BUT WELL MEANING) NEIGHBORS

If you wouldn't invite this couple over for a dinner party (and your conversations rarely last longer than a quick chat while taking out the garbage) hold the invites, girl.

8.) SECOND, THIRD AND FOURTH COUSINS

Chances are you only see them every 10 years at the family reunion, anyway. If you still want to get the good news out, send an official wedding announcement with photos and a sweet note to everyone in your extended family.

9.) OUTER-CIRCLE FAMILY FRIENDS

You've known this family for what seems like forever (whether they're old neighbors or former classmates) but if you haven't chatted in ages other than the occasional grocery store run-in, no need to extend an invite.

10.) ANYONE LESS THAN 110% HAPPY FOR YOU

At the end of the day, your wedding day should be filled to the brim with people who love you and couldn't possibly be happier for you. If there's someone who makes you feel like less-than, he or she certainly doesn't deserve a spot among the people who truly care.





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