2017 Wedding Colour Trends

Looking for some 2017 wedding colour trends that better suit your style? There are couple of most used colours in 2017, have a look at these combinations from Elegant Wedding Invites:

1. Peach, Gold and Green

 2. Cranberry,Orange and Ivory

3. Gold,Burgundy and Green

4.Mauve, GrayNeutral

5. Navy, Coral and Gold

6. Natural White and Green

7. Red and Dark Gray

you may also want to try these trends;

Mauve and gray neutral

Lavender, pink and green

Cranberry orange and off white

Red and dark gray

Navy coral and gold

White and green

Gold and green

Gold burgundy and green

Aqua, cream and blush

Coral, teal and peach

French blue, blush and gold

which is your favourite? 

Mine is Natural White and Green.

8 Wedding Traditions You Can Break

Here is our list of wedding traditions that can be sidelined.

1. Old-School Rule: Brides must wear a long, white gown.

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The New Twist: Wear whatever you want. Yes, we know the long white gown is everyone’s dream but you can be different as long as you’re comfortable in it.

2. Old-School Rule: You can only have two wedding colours.

The New Twist: Your palette can have as many (or as few) colours as you want. The trick is to make sure they work together by using multiple neutrals or colors in the same family of shades (think: pink, orange and yellow, or a palette of white, cream and blush).

3. Old-School Rule: The ceremony program has to be formal.

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The New Twist: Programs should include important info, like who's in the bridal party and the meaning behind your cultural traditions, but that doesn't mean you can't have a bit of fun with the design. Turn your programs into a playful Mad Lib, crossword puzzle with clues about your relationship or even make fortune-tellers with fun facts about your childhood or even something as functional as a fan. Guests will love the idea, and they'll appreciate having something to do while they wait for the ceremony to start.

4. Old-School Rule: Bridesmaids are female and groomsmen are male.

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The New Twist: I love this idea. Don't confine your list of VIPs to your female friends (and vice versa for grooms). If your best friend in the world happens to be a guy, make him your bridesman, or a groom can ask his good friend to be a groomswoman (if there’s anything like that). Coordinate their looks with the rest of the party with accessories like a colorful bow tie or sash.

5. Old-School Rule: You can't see each other before the ceremony.

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The New Twist: This superstition has long been proven false, so there's really nothing stopping you if you don't want to wait until your walk down the aisle to see one another. Schedule a first-look photo shoot (you and your fiancé meet with just the photographer before the ceremony), say some words of prayer together or just do some check ups together.

6. Old-School Rule: Your bridesmaids should wear matching dresses.

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The New Twist: Let your girls' individual personalities shine by having each one pick a dress that suits her own taste and figure. The trick to pulling off the mismatched look is to have one cohesive element, like the same fabric, color or length. Or let them personalize their look with accessories, like funky jewelry, boleros or patterned tights, you can also set the limits.

7. Old-School Rule: Ceremony seating is based on a bride’s side and groom’s side.

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The New Twist: It used to be that guests of the bride sat on the left and guests of the groom on the right. Even now, plenty of your guests will go by this guideline. But if your partner’s family is huge and yours is tiny, your ceremony will look a little weird if most people are seated on one side. If you’re having ushers, ask them to direct your VIPs, grandparents, aunts, uncles and the like to prime seats toward the front of either side and instruct your other guests to sit in any open seat. No ushers? No problem. Place a sign in the area and have it read something like, "Choose a seat, not a side—we’re all family once the knot is tied."

8. Old-School Rule: Wedding ceremonies take place in religious institutions.

The New Twist: If you grew up attending worship services and have always dreamed of walking down that aisle, then this is not for you. Otherwise, pick a ceremony venue that's meaningful to the both of you. It can be anywhere: a park, backyard, an old theater or anywhere you’re comfortable with. Just check with your officiant ahead of time to make sure they're comfortable with marrying you outside of a religious space, it doesn’t look bad as it sounds… or does it?

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24 Maid of Honour Duties you should know.

You just got an invite to be the maid of honour and you’re wondering what to do? Don't worry, we've got your job description, sit back and have a good read.

The maid/matron of honor is part worker bee, part emotional lifeboat. Chosen for your energetic, get-the-ball-in-motion qualities, you should also remember that listening to the bride, making her laugh, and offering emotional and logistical support are also part of your honor attendant package. Here's what's expected:

- Lead the bridesmaid troupe. It's the maid/matron of honor's (MOH) job to direct the other maids through their duties. Make sure everyone gets their bridesmaid dresses, go to dress fittings, and find the right jewelry. Also provide them with the necessary information on all prewedding parties.

- Help shop for dresses (the bride's and the bridesmaids'). And the MOH pays for her own entire wedding outfit (including shoes).

- Offer to help the bride with prewedding tasks, from addressing invites to choosing the wedding colors.

- Spread the news about where the bride and groom are getting married (location)

- Help the bride change for her honeymoon and take charge of her gown after the ceremony. Arrange for storage in a safe place until she returns.

- Lend an ear. Whether it's about the planning, the marriage, or the registry patterns, the MOH should assure the bride that she has someone with whom she can share her thoughts. Even if she seems to dwell on the same subjects repeatedly, the MOH keeps listening.

- Host or cohost a bridal shower for the bride.

- Attend all prewedding parties.

- Keep a record of all the gifts received at various parties and showers (or delegate a bridesmaid to handle this).

- Plan the bachelorette party with the bridesmaids.

- See to it that all bridesmaids get to the rehearsal; coordinate transportation and lodging, if necessary.

- Make sure that all bridesmaids get their hair and makeup done, get to the ceremony on time, and have the correct bouquets.

- Hold the groom's ring during the ceremony. Safest place to put it? On your thumb.

- Arrange the bride's train and veil before the ceremony begins and just after she arrives at the altar. The MOH might also need to help her bustle the train for easy dancing at the reception.

- Hold the bride's bouquet while the couple exchanges vows.

- Sign the marriage license as a witness, along with the best man.

- Stand next to the groom in the receiving line (this is optional; the bride may decide to have attendants circulate among the guests instead).

- Play hostess along with the other bridesmaids at frequent points during the reception: show guests where to sit, direct them to restrooms, tell them to where to put presents, invite them to sign the guest book, etc.

- Collect any gift envelopes brought to the reception and keep them in a safe place.

- Make sure the bride takes a moment to eat something -- refresh her drink, get her a plate of food from the buffet table, or instruct the wait staff to keep her entree warm.

- Dance with the best man during the formal first-dance sequence and possibly be announced with him at the beginning of the party. Also dance with other groomsmen, the groom, and others throughout the musical entertainment.

- Toast the couple after the best man. (This is optional, but it is a nice touch.)

- Troubleshoot emotional crises. In most cases, this will require lots of tissues, hugging, and hair-smoothing. The MOH continues to be a trusted friend, a good listener, and a smart advisor.

- Keep the bride laughing. For the stressed-out bride, laughter can be as effective as venting.

This sounds hectic hun?😐

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What Does RSVP Mean on an Invitation?

Let's clear the confusion over the phrase "RSVP".

Also, check who to really invite to your wedding.

Finally, the debated meaning of the ever-elusive RSVP is revealed! This tip is for both hosts and guests alike because there seems to be a lot of confusion about the meaning of the term RSVP. Often, guests will see those letters on an invitation and not be sure what they're supposed to do about it. No one wants to be rude and not respond accordingly. There are times we as guests don't have the correct answer.

RSVP is a simple mystery that is not overly complicated. Explaining the acronym can help decode the confusion over the phrase "RSVP". You will never find yourself questioning what the phrase RSVP means and can proudly share the information with friends. Most importantly ignoring a RSVP does have its consequences.

The Problem

Many people have experienced the frustration that even when they put a RSVP request on an invitation, guests don't do anything about it. This problem is an especially common frustration among those who are planning a wedding.  Some hosts might skip asking for a RSVP but this could lead to many issues for the host. The biggest problem is that a host can't estimate how many guests plan to attend their party without an RSVP. What causes our friends and loved ones not to RSVP? Could it be as simple as a misunderstanding about what this acronym means?

What RSVP Means

The term RSVP comes from the French expression "répondez s'il vous plaît", meaning "please respond".

If RSVP is written on an invitation it means the invited guest must tell the host whether or not they plan to attend the party. It does not mean to respond only if you're coming, and it does not mean respond only if you're not coming (the expression "regrets only" is reserved for that instance). It means the host needs a definite head count for the planned event and needs it by the date specified on the invitation.

Why It's Inconsiderate Not to RSVP

Many people don't RSVP because they don't want to disappoint the host. This attempt to spare their loved ones feelings usually causes more trouble than a simple no. An incomplete list of respondents can cause numerous problems for a host including difficulty in planning food quantities, issues relating to minimum guarantees with catering halls, uncertainty over the number of party favors and difficulties in planning appropriate seating, among other things. Until you host your own parties, it's difficult to imagine the frustration that ensues from inadequate responses to a RSVP.

Sometimes people don't send a RSVP by the requested time because they are unsure if they will be able to attend and don't want to commit to an answer. If this is your situation it's best to be honest with the host about your situation. The only way they can help make accommodations for you is if they know you need them.

So the next time you see RSVP on an invitation you receive, please call your host and respond promptly. Your host will be eternally grateful.

The appropriate response to a RSVP should be:

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Brown,

Adam and I are looking forward to attending the wedding of Charles and Elizabeth on August 9, 2017. We look forward to sharing in this happy time with you.

Sincerely,

Original post by the spruce.com, emphasis by the knot and Miles team.

8 important To-Dos for the Week of Your Wedding (That Are Easy to Forget!)

Sometimes last year, I shared 17 things to do 48 hours to your wedding. In case you missed it, check here. This post is an update on it.

Even though your contracts are signed and sealed, you still need to make sure there is a proper checkup till appropriate delivery is made.

You're a week away from saying "I do"—and trust me, I know you're so ready. But with seven days to go, there are a few seemingly small but important tasks that need to be checked off your list so they don't fall through the cracks. You don't want to be at the altar ready for your ring bearer to produce the ring and then realise that there's no ring, right?
Here are 8 steps to avoid such Mishaps:

1. Overcommunicate With Your Vendors

To make sure everyone is on the same page (so they don't need to call you or your point people on the day-of) call every single wedding vendor and confirm, then re-confirm each arrangement you have with them, including, but not limited to:

* Giving the reception site/caterer final head count. Include vendors, such as the photographer or band members, who will expect a meal. Ask how many extra plates the caterer will prepare.

*Supplying the location manager with a list of vendor requests such as a table for the DJ or setup space needed by the caterer or Live band.

* Giving the ceremony and reception site managers a schedule of vendor delivery and setup times, plus contact numbers.

* Calling car rental company for pickup times and locations.

2. Designate Your Various Point People

You don't want your caterer calling you while you're getting your makeup done. To avoid that, designate point people for every situation, including:

* Ceremony items: If you're using rings, throwing extra bouquet, reading a speech...have one of your attendants make sure all items are at the altar ahead of time.

*Money: Write checks and/or talk to the wedding hosts (usually your parents) about any final balances to be paid at the end of the reception.

*Reception questions: Introduce your reception site manager to your consultant or maid of honor for questions or problems during the reception.
*Miscellaneous questions: Provide all wedding professionals with an emergency phone number to call on the day of the wedding—usually your planner, maid of honor or bridesmaid.

3. Take the Time to Pack Properly

This is going to be the one occasion where you probably should care deeply about what's in your suitcase. Whether you're getting married five minutes down the street or you're leaving for your honeymoon a day after the reception, taking the time to pack thoughtfully for each event that week is crucial. (We know all too well what happens when you wake up at 5 a.m. to pack with bleary eyes! Mismatched bathing suits and missing deodorant, anyone?) Do you have your beauty emergency kit? Your bikinis and lingerie that was gifted to you at your shower? Your day-of present and note to your partner? Knowing you have everything you need will definitely minimize any stress.

4. Schedule Any Beauty Appointments

Your fingers will likely be texting all week, which makes it even more crucial to keep your nails fresh. Make any minor beauty appointments you want done that week. Think: a mani-pedi, waxing, massage, blowout and facial. This goes for your groom too—make sure his hair is trimmed and face is shaved (if that's the look he's after).

5. Arrange Help for Any Guests Who Need It

If you have any ill or elderly guests coming to your wedding, it will be meaningful for them to know you're so glad they can attend. Show your love by making sure they have proper transportation to and from the airport/park and your wedding events and that they have a comfortable place to stay. You can ask family members, friends or attendants to help with any pick-ups and drop-offs.

6. Hand These Items Off

Getting married also means having a lot of important things to distribute among your family and attendants.

- Give your marriage license to your officiant.
- Present attendants with gifts at the rehearsal dinner.
- Present parents and each other with gifts.
- Give wedding bands to the best man and the maid of honor to hold during the ceremony.
- Give the best man the officiant's fee envelope to be handed off after the ceremony.
- Hand off place cards, table cards, menus, favors and any other items for setting the tables to the caterer and/or reception site manager.

7. Have Your Wedding Attire Ready to Go

Make arrangements at your bridal salon or local cleaners to have your wedding dress steamed and don't try it on after it's been steamed or else it'll wrinkle again. Store it in the garment bag from the bridal salon and hang it in a closet in a smoke-free and pet-free room. (You can lift the skirt out of the bag—just make sure to put a clean sheet on the ground below it first.) Also have an attendant pick up the groom and groomsmen tuxes.

8. Deliver Welcome Baskets

Whether it's you or an attendant, deliver your welcome baskets for guests to the hotel concierge. Make a list of names, delivery instructions and any additional information you have to prevent any mix-ups.

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Original post by Ivy Jacobson of the Knots.com, emphasis by Miles team.

Grand Wedding Entrance Ideas

Hey!!
You need to read this if you're getting married soon or planning to get married someday 😋

Do you want a reception entrance that is different from the norm?
I prepared amazing ideas that can make your entrance super fun and super awesome!

1. Sparkler entry

What’s better than sparklers glowing away in the hands of your loved ones? Nothing I will say.

2. Animal Themed:

What’s grander than walking into a sea of well-wishers on an elephant or horse? And if it’s so brightly decorated and put up – then it’s all the more fun. Just choose your drape and flowers wisely so you don’t look clumsy.

3. Indian themed Entrance

OK, remove those "boring" gowns and tuxedos and try this out.

4. Any Public Transport

The goal is to try something out of the norm, A decorated keke or taxi wouldn't be a bad idea.

5. Horse Carriages

Sounds more like a royal entrance. A beautifully decorated carriage will add sparkles to your day.

6. Break into a fun sign

The thought of this alone is enough fun. Get an artist to design a sign with:
 “Breaking free” or “Just Married” or ” Running For Our Lives” , something that gives a chuckle to your guests faces and run into it.

7. Walk Through the Hands Tunnel

Walking through the tunnel formed by the hands of the bridal party is yet another entertaining wedding reception entrance idea. It will keep everyone in the reception amazed and involved. DJ should be instructed to play some lively music at the time of entrance.

8. Ribbon Wands

Whole bridal party and groomsmen would be waving ribbon wands as the newlywed couple makes its entrance through the isle. Ribbons can be multicoloured as well as any that goes best with the wedding color.

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Romantic Honeymoon Destination in Nigeria

A honeymoon vacation is once in a lifetime experience and so many couples go the extra-mile to get the best experience.

If you are planning your honeymoon, there are beautiful destinations in Nigeria where you can have a lifetime experience and at cheaper price.

Here are few reasons you should try Nigeria Destinations:

1. High Exchange rate
2. You can enjoy quality at lesser price.
3. You can avoid the Stress in processing traveling documents.
4. Opportunity to attend to Emergencies.
5. Buy Naija to grow Naira.

I present to you 11 exciting, Honeymoon Destinations in Nigeria that would totally blow your mind.

Enjoy!



1.) La Campagne Tropicana:
Location: Ikegun, Ibeju-Lekki, Off Lekki-Epe Express way.
Price: From #150,000

La Campagne Tropicana Beach Resort is a 65 acre tranquil paradise located just an hour’s drive from Victoria Island in Lagos State.
This 5 star Resort offers a unique blend of natural environments which include a fresh water lake, accessible mangrove forest, a savannah, extensive sandy beach and the warm Atlantic sea.
Some of the activities you can enjoy at this exciting place are canoeing, hiking, hunting, horse riding, beach volleyball, beach football, snorkeling and ocean water fishing.


2.) Le Méridien Ibom Hotel & Golf Resort

Location: Nwaniba Road, PMB 1200, Uyo, Akwa Ibom State, Nigeria
Price: From #63,000

Le Méridien Ibom Hotel & Golf Resort, the pride of Uyo, Akwa Ibom State, welcomes you with open arms. Situated amidst rich palm forest vegetation, this magnificent hotel on 174 hectares of land connotes peace and serenity complemented by its original atmosphere.

The lush greens of the world-class 18-holegolf course, creates the right atmosphere, for the most challenging, memorable golfing experience. Each time you visit this unique hotel in Uyo, Akwa Ibom State, discoveries await you. It is a beautiful place.

3. Obudu Mountain Resort:
Location: Obudu, Cross River state.
Price: from #25,000

Nestling at the top of the mountain the Obudu Mountain Resort is situated on a plateau at 1576 metres above sea level on the Oshie Ridge of the Sankwala Mountains. The temperate climate offers a total contrast and welcome respite from Africa’s tropical heat. Idyllic tranquillity, beautiful scenery and breathtaking views make it ideal for the lone adventurer, families on reunion, young couple or holiday group.

The Obudu Mountain Resort offers a fully equipped gym, two floodlit tennis courts, a squash court and a natural swimming pool. Keen golfers can show their prowess on the hotel’s 9-hole golf course.

A major talking point for guests is Africa’s longest cable car system. At 4 kilometres, Obudu Mountain Resort cable car gently transfers guests (and their bags) from the tropical climate at the base of the mountain right to the hotel’s reception area on the mountainside which is often in the clouds and is accompanied by an invigorating drop in temperature.

So, grab your hiking boots, pack your binoculars and come experience this unspoilt part of Africa and sleep easy knowing that all the comfort and top-class service which African Sun is famous for will be provided in your stay.

4.) Kamp IKARE
Location: Ikare village, Badagry, Lagos.
Price: Not available

Kamp Ikare is beach resort that offers home-away-from-home facilities and services that combines the rustic environment around it with a Miami-style lounge area creating the most simple, no fuss environment for your relaxation.

Kamp Ikare is situated on a stretch of Lagoscoast near Ikare village and it’s only accessible by boat.

The resort has main communal beach house with 6 duplex cabins positioned around a swimming pool and just meteres from the sea.

If one afternoon is not enough the you can spend the night in one of there fully air-conditioned bungalows.

What better way to wake up than to the sound of the ocean. A day or night at Kamp Ikare is the ideal way to get away without going too far.

Home cooked lunch (and breakfast if staying overnight) is included in the price. But you may have to find your own way there if they get busy.

5.) Zenababs Half Moon Resort.
Location: Ilesha, Osun state.
Price: from #12,000

Zenababs half moon resort is located in the heart of ijesa land, the resort is situated in a peaceful and beautiful part of Osun State, surrounded by natural beauty, nearby hills, with over 25 acres of lush grounds, providing a luxurious and tranquil environment in which to celebrate specials occasions.

WIFI Internet Access is available in the whole resort. Facilities currently available include:

• A boating lake
• A large swimming pool
• Tennis courts
• Basket ball and volleyball courts
• A children’s playing ground


6.) Whispering Palms Resort:
Location: Iworo, Badagry, Lagos state.
Price: from #25,000

Whispering Palms is a conference resort centre occupying an 8-acre of land in a rural area of Lagos state: Iworo, Badagry Local Government Area. It lies on the Lagoon and typifies the beauty of the area-cool, Atlantic breeze, sillica sands, palm trees and chirping birds. The road within the resort looks fascinating as it lined with palms kernel residue. The entire environment is quiet with stunning ambiance and a contrast to the maddening crowd and noise of Lagos.

Honeymoon Package available in Whispering Palms Includes:

Accommodation
Welcome Coconut drink
Complimentary Breakfast
Lunch
Candle Light dinner at Yankari
Badagry Tour
Boat cruise and relaxation to Moba Beach
Gym & Swimming Pool access
Indoor and Outdoor games
Bicycle and Pedal Boat rides
Cocktail with WP Chairman and Director

7.) Miccom Golf Hotel and Resorts:
Location: Ada, Osun State, Ibokun road.
Price: from #6000

Miccom Golf Hotel and Resorts is among the top hotels in Osun. The hotel is a luxurious one with lots of options of rooms to choose from. Dear

8.) Epe Resort & Spa:
Location: Epe, Lagos.
Price: from #40,000

The Epe Resort & Spa, a stylish blend of contemporary and traditional design, with 40 rooms, consisting of 10 chalets of 4 rooms each, nestled in the lush green hillside of a tropical forest & bordering the Lekki Lagoon.

The resort will showcase the cream of Nigerian culture while delivering the ultimate in personalized service, excellent cuisine, social style & business reliability.

The abundance of decorative stonewalls with a blend of rich dark wood interiors create a look of elegance and luxury in the wonderfully spacious rooms with patios overlooking the sprawling gardens, ideal for all occasions, a romantic break, family vacation or corporate getaway.

Matched only by the scenic beauty which graces, Epe Resort and Spa, dining is a celebration of the senses and skilled chefs, demanding only the freshest ingredients, crafting exquisite dishes. Our culinary journey introduces a variety of traditional and international dishes with a focus on our daily fish special, fresh from Epe’s famous fish market.

9.) Samanika Holiday Resort:
Location: Samanika, Kaduna
Price: from 11,000

Located in Saminaka, Kaduna State, is a nice honeymoon destination for love birds. Saminaka holiday resort gives couples many options of well furnished rooms, world class restaurants, a swimming pool and many other facilities.

10.) Abraka River Resort.
Location: Abraka, Delta State.
Price: from 7000

Located in the quiet University town of Abraka, on the bank of River Ethiope, the crystal-clear river which is fed by a spring, flows through a forested area.

The Abraka river resort motel has a sandy beach on the river with tables and umbrellas, and you can ride on a local canoe. The water is safe for swimming and is so clear that you can see the fish at the bottom between 3-5m below. The source of River Ethiope is from under a silk tree.

Facilities include table tennis, beach volley ball, a bar and a restaurant.

11.La Manga Luxury Beach
Location: Abraka, Delta state.
Price: from #35,000

La Manga Luxury Beach Villas is a little piece of paradise nested along the unspoiled Atlantic Ocean on the beautiful and alluring Island of Ilashe.

Located in Lagos, bordering the Badagry creek and surrounded by luscious and towering coconut palm trees, the La Manga is just 15 minutes boat ride from Ikoyi and Victola Island.

La Manga beach villas are Spanish architectural designed villas with four tastefully furnished beach front bedrooms with large sliding doors that opens to private balconies.

Each villa has lavished suite with rooftop Jacuzzi and private lounge, sizable swimming pool, massage room, beachfront living room with open lounge, furnished kitchen, bar and poolside barbeque grill area.

La Manga beach villas has all the amenities you would expect from an exquisitely luxurious home away from home where you can relax, listen to the uninterrupted sounds of the breeze and the gentle waves on the beach.

The tasteful fittings and furnishing surrounds you with the comfort and convenience that will enable you to fully savour the relaxing atmosphere of the beach setting.

The beach facilities include open-air gazebo for dinning and lounging, beach front bamboo canopies for relaxation, mini-golf course, beach volleyball court, and quad bikes. Water sport activities such as jet ski and boat cruise can be arranged upon request.

With over 15,000 square meters of enclosed beach front open ground, La Manga is ideal for that exclusive private and corporate events such as cocktails, weddings, social and family gatherings, corporate executive retreats, training, seminars, and exclusive product launch.

Have you been to any of the destinations? Kindly drop your comments.


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